Hive-Naija Weekend Engagement #33 - "Money or Fame"

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"The greatness of a community is most accurately measured by the compassionate actions of its members."
•Coretta Scott King


It's Friday!!

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Last time, we discussed about "Football"

Thank you all for sharing your lovely opinions. We had about 400+ comments, 60 comments away from breaking our ATH.


Some months ago, I thought, I shared and I asked "Why don't we Chat on hive every Weekend?"

And you all said...

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Well, we won't be the first as there are some weekend engagement trends already on Hive! But this would be THE NIGERIAN VERSION!


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So Shall We?

I will drop a topic every Friday(Today's topic is below), share your thoughts on the matter, reply to someone else opinion, and interrogate the opinion if you like. Keep the discussion on. If you don't have anything to say about the topic. Just reply to someone else's comment.

Do all these in the comment section, as that is where it all goes down.

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There are no further rules, please banter as you like, speak any Nigerian language (Igbo, Yoruba, pidgin, Efik), anything, as long as someone else can understand.

However, please don't take it to the extreme

This week's engagement starts Immediately after you see this post and ends on Sunday at 11:59 pm.


Prizes for this week

Thanks to the @starstrings01, @crossculture and @elcomentador. They helped curate comments every week


Prizes are distributed to the winners after considering their interactions and also their contributions to the topic. This week's prizes ;


1st prize - 2 Hive + A very good upvote in a selected post of yours in the week! + 100 Ecency points

2nd Prize - 1 Hive + 100 Ecency points

3rd Prize - 1 HiVE + 100 Ecency points

4th Prize - 1 HIVE + 100 Ecency points

5th prize - 1 HIVE

Prizes courtesy of:

@Samostically - 6 Hive + 400 Ecency points

@starstrings01 - Upvote & Curation.

@ksam - 1 HBD

Note:

If you win and fail to provide a quality post in 7 days, you forfeit your " quality upvote" (post must be less than 24hours old)

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Topic Of Discussion - Money or Fame

Today's topic is simple, Money or fame - Pick one and tell us why.

Would u like to be famous even though it doesn't translate to being wealthy?

Or will you like to be rich and not being known?

Fun fact: The second visited Youtuber in the world with over 100 Million subscribers is not so wealthy. Why? Because he donates his money out every month.

He does this because he already enjoys being famous and says he doesn't need to be super rich.

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What do you think?

Let's have fun.. Gist, love and learn!


Special Prize

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There would be 1 HBD going to one person who invites someone new to join us courtesy of @ksam

Note: The person must be Nigerian and must make at least two comments in this post.

Feel free to tag your friends that have also been away... Soon the prizes will get bigger!

(@hopestylist won 2 Hive last week for inviting @olawalium)


Let the discussion begin...

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@deraaa, @B0s, @merit.ahama, @peaq, @monioluwa, @brightdavid, @stevenson7, @obrisgold1, @jaydr @mayorkeys, @wolfofnostreet @readthisplease @young-boss-karin, @tukem1 @k-banti, @iskafan, @chosenfingers @onwugbenuvictor, @monica-ene @heskay @etiboy56 @doziekash, @chincoculbert, @funshee @omosefe @ozohu @attentionneeded @popmanj @estherscott @vickoly @gloriaolar @pianokills @hepziba @tblings-art @anissignature @ijohnsen @manuel6 @khaleesii @kenechukwu97 @abidemiademok21 @otshotz @blezyn @uzuka @mrenglish @bbjmed @uddydan @reineesmay @b0s @prechidi @joydukeson @benii @henryce @nkemakonam89 @zestimony @surgeoncaspar @kingobonnaya @belemo @chidubem26 @olawalium @sekani

You permitted me to tag you but you can always tell me to stop anytime!

If you are new, and you want me to tag you on the engagement posts, please indicate in the comment section.

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So early? What happened?;😄

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I'm going out - I have connection issues. I don't want to forget for some reason.

And btw - its Friday 😎

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It just clocked midnight and post is already up, this is the earliest I've seen the engagement post come up 😄

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I will add it to my self-development post. I broke the record!

I just don't want to joke with my posting routines. I've written 16days in a row since I started posting within a time frame.

I just don't want this to stop or interfere with my routine, but yeah, this might be d earliest ever.

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Hmm, that's really nice, keep it up. It's not really easy to start something like that and still keep up with it. I'm more impressed seeing that you are even getting better at mastering your routine, wow.

I have a question oo, why is it that you don't join in the engagement? In fact I'm inviting you to join this weekend engagement if you don't mind, I will love to see what you have to say 🙃.

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Lol, nice was also suprised when you mentioned my name early.

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Hahahaha, don't mind me

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Why will i mind my boss
We go still do am
Expect 1m comment 😂😂😂😋

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That's a really good thing, me self I'm having some things to do today but I'm feeling really tired and sleepy so I can't write a post but I hope I can before I go about the things I have to do.

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Interesting!!! I'm so confused sha, but I think I will choose fame because for me having money without knowing anyone is not going to be fun at all.

I can't even imagine being rich or wealthy and I don't know people or people don't even care whether or not I exist, ah!! No oo, I will go with fame.

@belleflower and @iskafan what do you think about this week's hive naija weekend engagement question? Please make ona come put mouth for the matter oo.

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I ran as fast as my legs could carry me when I heard you call my mentor, I am here now boss.

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Just to be clear, I do not hate people or anything 🫡

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Yeah I'm very sure you don't hate people 🥰.

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Lol
This just brought a smile to my face🤗 I am glad you know dear🥰

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Yes dear I know because I've been around you and I've felt your warm heart towards people 🥰.

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Awww ☺️
See whining 🥺
Lemme run 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️before you finish me with blushing 😊

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Hahaha, better come back here oo, I will still catch you again, you can run but you can't hide, lol 😁😁.

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Lol 😂
Pls oh
Lemme hide dis time 🙈

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Hehehe, no wahala you can hide this time, I will catch you next time 😉.

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Hmmm!! Fame cannot put food on the table ooo. Go to National theatre at Orile-Iganmu and see all those faces on tv screens living like paupers.

Money runs the world, not fame.

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I follow you with my full chest here
Money!!!!!!!!!!!

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Money is the koko. Make fame go rest, abeg.

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Normally, in this life some need to have money why others go get connections 😁😁.

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Funny thing is some people live lives that disagrees with this, they will rather kill for fame, hoping that fame will bring more money, sadly their fame only ends after their relevance fades and someone else outshines them.

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Oya na, see people when go help me when them get money oo 🤩😜.

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That's true to some extent, well the Bible said good name is better than riches, my being famous will be for something good not bad so, I will still choose fame sir 😢.

Everybody is wanting to make me feel like I choose wrong but no!!! I will stick to fame, when you have money if I come and beg you will you refuse me? 🥺

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Ahahah. Keep sticking.
You didn't choose wrong. One man's food, they say, is another man's poison.
Rich and famous is good.

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Yes oo, that's it Sir 🥰.

How are you doing na?

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I'm good ooo. At redemption camp. It's our perfect jubilee convention.

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That's good to hear, enjoy your stay 😊😊.

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I wish I was freer, we for meet but maybe next year.. enjoy and pray for us oo

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Me I'll make my good name jare, with my money😂😂.

Nah, you have a right to choose what you want. You could even make your wealth with your fame

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That's it dear, thank you for your contribution ✌️🤗.

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You gave it a beautiful look when you mentioned national theatre , you couldnt have helped it. Those guys are famous and really dont have much to live on, most of them survive on Church and are suffering from chronic diseases. That was not because they werent rich at a time, they had money, but an important aspect of wealth includes wisdom to keep making it. They had lacked this wisdom, enjoyed their money from movie hits and never considered days of yore, the other day we were considering who designed the flag of Nigeria and who wrote the national anthem, their work overshadows them, but who can remember their names.

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I believe with money, you can have the influence you need and knock on doors. When you have money, you don't even need to leave your comfort zone, they will be the one looking for you. Yes, fame is good but knowing who I am, I don't really fancy it. I would stick with money.

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Hmm, this is really good for me then, I have fame and all my friends are choosing money, are you thinking what I'm thinking? 🙃😉.

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We will give you money to help us advertise 😂😂🤣😂😂🤣... It's a win-win situation.

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😂😂😂 chop your fame o
It's good to be different 😏

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Yes oo, I will go with my fame, lol.

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No wahala
You don dey get fame here already for hive😂

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Yea...
I hope to have fame on hive and I'm going to have to work very hard to make it a reality.

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Congratulations to you
Good luck to you too

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Thank you dear, good luck with getting the money too 🤩🤩.

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😂😂🤣 you have the connections already, your fame journey has begun. Imagine being seen with the richest people on earth. Show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are, your friends are rich, therefore...

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Hmm, see analysis naw, I'm so happy you understand what I mean and you just made me even understand it more 😁❤️.

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Really?
you'd pick fame?
Okay looking at it from your angle not bad but tar!!!!!
I would pick money anyday

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Yes.
Sure I will pick fame any time and day 😁.
Hahaha, you are not funny oo 😂😂, please pick money oo, so that when I'm in need I will run to you, lol.

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Abegi, what will I carry fame and do. I will take money jorh. My unborn generation has to have something to start off with.

Fame won't put food on the table for me, my husband, and my children. Fame won't send them to school.

In short, with money comes influence.... Look around Hive, and you'll understand what rules the world.

So, if you ask me, I would want both money and fame. But I already know that it's tiring to have both, so I'll stick with money. If fame follows then, I'll still take it.

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Lol she said if fame follows then I will still take it
Fame announces as a person I see why one needs to be famous if it does not pay bills
Rather you'd just be the talk of the town and still broke....nahhhh
Money it is.
Lol
How have you been?

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Hmm, that's where you got it wrong, when you are the talk of town it is for a reason so we just have to be famous for something good and trust me, you won't go hungry, not even your generation 👌❤️.

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Omo
We have some hungry people that have fame
They won't tell you this
They will want to live to that standard therefore getting more financial issues to sort out

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I don't want to be like that sha, I want to be true to myself and others as well but I'm human after all so fingers crossed 🤞🤞.

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Another angle. That's why many of them live fake lives to keep up the image.

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Exactly my point
Because they want to maintain that fame

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Rather you'd just be the talk of the town and still broke.

Obviously the opposite of fame is more like shame now..

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Hmm, you've made really good points on why you think money is the best option, well one thing you fail to see was that you being famous does not mean you are poor, you still work and because you are famous, you easily get opportunities that will help you become rich with time.

Go girl, go get the money while I get the fame, we will be of great help to ourselves 🥰🥰.

Thank you so much for stopping by and leaving your comment on the hive naija weekend engagement question, it's a really great pleasure to see your contribution.

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Fame won't put food on the table for me, my husband, and my children. Fame won't send them to school.

Exactly ma
Even tho you tell your children
Am choosing fame because of you, i want you to be the child of........
They won't even forgive you for that 😂😂

Use the money and create fame

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No long story😂, fame looks tempting but nah, you refuse to lose focus. One cold zobo for you.

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😂Like this person dey find wetin e go chop. Abi na fame the person go chop? Ride on Ma'am! Where the money at please? People have needs.

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You go get fame, make your village people eye dey for where you dey😂😂

Abeg give me money and let me dey my lane biko

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Eya, them go tire to see am oo, lol.

Please my dear go and enjoy your money 😎😎.

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You have a point Sha😂😂. But don't you think that fame is more about people knowing you than you knowing people? As for me, I go with just money. Just saying...

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It all depends on what we want to think Eddy, I chose fame because I want fame, I can't really give an exact reason why because everyone is choosing money so let me just choose fame abeg, lol 😂😂.

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I choose wealth over fame, sincerely from the bottom of my heart, if it were possible to live without interacting with anyone, I would be doing that rn, my mentor @hopestylist is already aware of my inability to wanna interact with people both in person and on social media platforms, this is like the only social media platform where I strive to talk and associate with people.
I would rather be wealthy than famous 😁
What do you guys think 🤔

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That's a good one my dear, it's really hard to just choose a particular one but think we all have reasons for doing what we do so I think your choice is okay especially when I look of the type of personality you have.

Being wealthy is still a good thing, I know you will still know me by then so, I'm very happy, the money go reach me, lol.

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Lol 😂
Definitely dear, Infact the money is for all of us to enjoy and somehow money brings company, weather genuine or not, it comes with a lot of companionship and with the economy of Nigeria, you will definitely be famous with a little change at hand, talk less of wealth.
Although that is not my aim sha, but as the saying goes, ‘if them put two thing’s for ground, you go pick one’
This is me picking one 😁

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Hehehe, you're right dear, we are just trying to pick one from the options given if not e nor bad say we get the two sha oo 😏.

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Lol 😂 Abi oh

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Yes naw, because now self I'm thinking of choosing money oo, this one you and @iskafan have come and choose money 😏😢.

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Hahaha.... Who no lie better thing 😂

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Lol 😂 boss it’s better you join us , we are on the winning team like this or you can stand your ground alone 😩
Join us today 🫡
😂 he don turn campaign oh 😂😂

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Hahaha, I choose to stand alone oo my dear, I will choose fame over money any time, it makes me want to always do what I need to do.

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Hmmm I feel you boss
You might convert me like this oh
But no oooo 🙈
I stand firmly rooted in d money soil

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Hehehe, what a sweetheart!!! No my darling I don't even want you to change your mind, you get the money, I get the fame 🔥🥰.

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Lol 😂
Nice duet 🤗that’s so sweet
I can already imagine it

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Yes oo.
Abi na 🥰.
Yes, it's a really nice combo 🤸‍♀️.

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I feel you. Money can do the talking. I don't like to be known that much. All those Tuale stuff irritates me.
So, just leave me jejely in my corner with enough money to enjoy this short time one has to live.

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Nor be lie, make ona sha remember me oo 😂😂🤸‍♀️🤸‍♀️.

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Abi ohhhh my brother
I am glad I have found my twin on this topic 🤗

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We gather dey. Money before fame.
When money come, we go manage the fame.

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No be lie, all the best.

Happy Sunday to you Sir, how was the convention?

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No fame
Less wahala
Less competition
Less enemies

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I see your fears now, that's wise if these are what you want to avoid.

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Yeah you are right.
I would pick money anyway.
I see no reason why people should know me
I don't even like that thing called popularity it just makes everyone want to know your business.

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Fame has so much advantages but the problem is we look at those who are famous for almost no reason.

I want to be famous for something good that I did and not just mere popularity.

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And that’s the worst part of it, everything you do would be in the mouth of others and you end up being surrounded by people who can’t wait to talk bad about you and all that , I knw u grab 🙈

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Exactly!
You get now
So I would rather go for money and live a quite life ohh that simple life with people poking nose all around you.
You move freely and do thing freely
Unlike fame that announce you arrival every time.

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Yeah that’s so true , I really like your understanding and analysis of things, it’s unique .
Keep it up 👍

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Hahaha, shield your sword, hehehe.

When you have money you will still get the fame you are running from, hehe.

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You are right dear but I have zero fears for what people say, I'm only scared of doing the wrong thing 😢.

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Nice choice. But the reality is, the two g together. Unless being famous here, requires one to be by the whole world but that's not how Merriam-webster defined the term 'famous", as it didn't specify the range one must be known to attain the status of being famous. So, you can be famous if you're known for the good things you have been doing in your state.

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I like the fact that you did a little research in the topic and got a better understanding on the proper meaning of the word.
Also I totally support your point of view 💯
Thanks for sharing 🙏

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This one go like be lecturer oo😂
But actually it makes lot of sense for you to research more
Some people, in short ME, like helping or doing good but doesn't like announcing it tho

I like all my things jeje

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😅😅😅😅

I gerrit. But we don't have to announce it though. But those we are good to can go further to tell others about our good works.

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Yeah
Do you know there's are good people more that the philanthropist we know?

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The philanthropist are good but some do what they do to get the glory to themselves but that's not really good.

Although so many people don't do it to get the glory and that's still the thing with fame too.

Some people have fame because of the little things they do out of freewill will others do it out of necessity.

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No matter how you try to hide your good it will still come out but it should not be made known to others by ourselves and in turn you will start having fame, you see?

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I believe the famous here is by the whole world or it won't actually be worthwhile. I'm an advocate for money 😂 so from your perspective, @belleflower can have her money, do good and have the fame, tada, win-win

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Awwww ☺️🥰
This is definitely the kind of win win I crave 🤗

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Just go and read the post again, it is explained there the type of fame he was talking about.

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Exactly, according to what samositically asked the question, that was why I choose fame over money.

You are absolutely right, the two goes together, as long as you have money, fame will surely find you and vice versa.

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This is exactly what I was saying... It depends on the kind of person you are. I would rather have that money than take the center stage by being famous. I don't want too much attention abeg 😂😂🤣

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Lol 😂
Abi oh
I am feeling this your comment and it gives me so much joy to see that people actually feel the way I do 🤗

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No matter how you want to run away from being famous, it will still come as long as you are a good or bad person.

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You sure don't know there are billionaires in Nigeria which we don't know their names? They will get a level of fame based on their influence, yes, but not everyone wants the public eye. What you said you want is public eye, it doesn't mean everyone wants that. Yes, you will be known based on those you are using to front but it's unlike those who want to be in the public eyes.

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Good one my dear
I notice you are new here, sure please learn to interact with people, i was like you before trying to change sha
But still i no dey like wahala
@hopestylist don become mentor oo
God when??🥺🥺

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Hahaha, please don't mind her oo, she's just so grateful for little things 😒.

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You're still a boss

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Lol 😂
Don’t worry you will soon become one
Ok boss I will continue to learn so I can improve on interacting with others

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Yeah sure
Saw you bear precious too
Name same

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Aww ☺️
Can things get any better ?
I believe they can 🤗
Nice to meet you Namey 🥰

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Lol
Definitely it can
I will follow you Right away so i will be seeing more of you

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Awww ☺️
That’s so sweet
Thanks Namey

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You're welcome namey
Make e pain @hopestylist Oya bring your own namey 😋

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You are doing really well my dear, you just have to keep it up 😊👍.

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Plus human beings get wahala, they can't all love you. For people that get worked up on little issues, you'll na start worrying about one mumu person's negative comments or false stories. Abeg, lemme enjoy my life quietly with my family and all the money I could ever wish for 😂❤️

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lol 😂
Abi oh my dear
The stress is not necessary

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Hehehe, no matter how you try to hide a light in darkness, it will still radiate light, I rest my case, that I don't have before 😂😂.

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Good morning brothers and sisters. This question of the week ehn, it has been answered before it is asked.
Considering what I desire, a silent life with comfort, I will conveniently go for wealth.

Nah Who Fame Help?

I think fame is a major distraction from facing reality. There are many famous people who are eating from hand to mouth. It is good to be known but it is better to be wealthy.

With wealth or riches, your fame will eventually come. The fame you are seeking for is in wealth.

For Instance

When Aliko Dangote started his business with the token of #20,000 he borrowed from his uncle Dantata, nobody knew him. But when he made wealth, he became famous, the richest man in Africa.

It is possible for a famous man to be pour. Like they say:

An empty drum, makes noise the most.

I'd rather be wealthy than have fame.

Wealthy People

When a man is wealthy, he commands respect. He could even employ a famous man to be to his service.
Wealthy people have the freedom to send money on an errand. What will a famous person who does not have enough money do if not excuses.

Anytime, any day, I will love to be wealthy than to be famous. I like to provide for my family, everything necessary to live a good life and even more. Fame cannot bring me that.

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Thank you for this. Exactly what I said. Fame would distract you... I don't want fame, just give me money and watch what I would do with the money.

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Ahaha. That's it bruv. Fame comes with too much necessary. The money at hand is like grease for a smooth ride.

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Really smooth ride. There is even a level of fame that comes with having money too, so money it is.

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Exactly boo, we will surely have money but first get the good name 👌.

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Good name it is..we need to first be good humans first. It makes it easier to build on.

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Yes boo that's it. And I believe if we can build a good name, we will surely attract money to ourselves.

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Even making money requires making a good name only then can we do something worthwhile with it.

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I can even make my good name with my money. Yoruba people say "olowo laye mo", thé world only recognises the rich. As long as your ways are pure and you do good to people around with your money, stop searching for good name o jare, "good name" is your new identity 😂.

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Normally oo, just make the money and I will get the fame, we will help each other 👌.

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See you. E be like say you be Delta woman, business full your head.

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Hahaha, I'm from Delta but I nor know say Delta women business dey full their head oo, lol.

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You dey on point
Gimme the money...lol

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You and gimme the money self, calm down na 😂😂. In fact take the money 💸💸💵💵💵💵💵🤑💵💵💸💸💸💸💸💵💵💷💷💷💶💶💶💴💴💴💴💴.

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Look at you. Be giving me tear tear money.

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Hahaha

The money nor tear oo, it's what they use to wrap the bundle, hehehe.

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🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂 he said tear tear money.

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Something we need to know here is, money is what will go as it comes but you see fame, it helps you in ways that you can't even fathom just as it can also bring you down.

You having fame for doing something good and exceptional is so rewarding more than money, trust me 🙂.

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Money won't go as it comes when you engage it. Don't forget that not many people can handle fame just as not many people can handle money which is why I said it depends on the kind of person. There are those who are also famous for a while and failed to do something meaningful with it...same with money... Money that is engaged would stand the test of time... Fame that is managed would also stand the test of time but I chose money due to my kind of person. I don't like too much attention...it doesn't make fame bad... I just might lose focus. Know thyself 😂😂🤣🤣😂 that's what I did, boo.

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Okay boo, I get it now and I totally agree with you.

Everyone have different abilities and it's just right that we make different choices that's how we get the world going.

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That's right. When we know ourselves, it is easier to know what works for us.

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Yes boo and it's a good thing you know who you are, it will help you make good choices for yourself.

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Normal if money de fame go follow.
I de with you here.

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Yes, that's right but for you to get the fame, you will have to go out of your comfort zone.

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Now do you think Dangote became famous because of his money? Well he is not famous because of his money, it was because of the value he added to the society. Yes he was still know for his money but do you know that it was because of his works that made him acquire that wealth?

OK, just look at his uncle you mentioned, is he not wealthy? But people only remember him when they want to speak of Dangote's success story 👌.

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You want to confuse me abi? The value he brought to society is intended to make profit (money). Ok!!
He became famous as a result.

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No I don't want to confuse you, I'm only trying to have someone on my side for real 😢. I want you to also see the good benefits for having fame too.

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Exactly
Some people with fame won't tell you when they are broke.
It's not necessarily living a fake life, but they have a standard they think they should met up

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That's really true, those who are famous always feel they have a standard to meet and for me that's not bad, it only becomes bad when the standard you are trying to keep it's not good.

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When i mean standard i mean financial standard
They might be broke but won't want to say

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Case closed 😂.

Nah Who Fame Help?

I could frame this 🤣.

You're right, this particularly affects the growth of many people.
The point of the fame is the love, the moment you make a mistake or deviate from being what the people want, the mob might turn against you. Fame keeps people under pressure, pressure to impress. I'm sure some of these celebrities keep personalities different from what they actually are to keep looking good to the people. But money does not discriminate 😁😁😂

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That's just the thing. One way or the other, wealth will still bring fame and respect. Please, be bringing the wealth oh

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Wealth and fame are brothers, they want together. Wealth walks ahead of fame.

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Money or fame? I will pick money. Why? Okay, let me start with this...

Age doesn't equate to maturity. You can speak Latin still it doesn't mean you know how to speak. You can take a vow and it doesn't mean you know how to love. Just because two lips met it doesn't mean two hearts joined. Fame doesn't translate to relevance. You can be famous and still it doesn't translate to much, that's life and it's easier to get carried away with the fanfare.

For me, I don't want fame but I want the money. The fame would drive unnecessary attention to me but I've always been the type that loves to pull the strings underneath. Most people who know me would know I keep things on the low. I wouldn't fault those who want fame, never, because the first thing is we need to understand ourselves to know what we would do when presented with opportunities. For me, I want the money and I have a lot of things to do which a lot of people wouldn't even know I am the face of it. Let others struggle for the glory, I'm okay with doing it underneath.

With a lot of money I can fulfil my dream of helping youth to rediscover themselves. I know we live in a world where we want everything to be about education, and rightly so. I want to help teenagers... Equip those who want to learn crafts while also sponsoring those who want to focus on education. Education isn't for everyone...so it's about helping them recognize what works for them.

I agree that with fame you can attract a lot of money but like I said, I don't like getting carried away... I would just stick with the money while leaving the fame out.

@princessbusayo and @khaleesii you should join this convo. What do you think?

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Interesting!!! I love how you analyzed it, it's so easy to understand.

Well, one of the main reasons I will choose fame over money is because fame is not what you can see, we become famous for one of two reasons;

  • Either we did something good

Or

  • We did something bad.

If you are famous because you did something good do you know the wealth that will come to you over time? You won't have the need to chase after money money will be the one to run to you.

But if you are famous for something bad, it will be really difficult for you but you will still have support from someone somewhere.

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I absolutely love this reason and you are right. There is wealth that comes with fame but knowing how I like being behind the scene, it's not something I want. A lot of people have been ruined also by the fame because they attract unnecessary attention to themselves.

Also, having every aspect of my life scrutinized isn't something I would like... The media follows you everywhere, carries your news everywhere...even when you sneeze. They start reading meaning to things they shouldn't which if you are not strong enough, can break someone.

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That's true but I don't want to attract such kind of attention to myself but I want to be famous, I don't know if you get what I'm trying to say.

It's a good thing to get feedback from people but I don't want that from the media sha because they easily attract the negative things about it.

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That's it. The media will always attract negative. Even when you do the right thing as long as they don't benefit, they will twist it.

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As in, that's why I pray I don't have sure type of fame, lol.

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🤣😂😂🤣 it comes with the territory.

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I can't say now, when I get there 😢✌️.

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I think money can bring you fame and vise versa🤔🤔

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You're absolutely right dear, money can bring about fame and vice versa.

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I get sense Normally 😂

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Yes oo, you do my dear 😊❤️.

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Well spoken
If you're are good keep being good with your money.

Only the money sef can bring you fame naturally because money answers all things

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I agree o. Money answers to a lot of things. They should keep the fame abeg 😂😂🤣

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They should keep it but as long as you have your money, the fame will be knocking at your door soon 😊😊.

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Fame gets level...there is one within a circle of influence based on the people you are using to front and there is one where you are in the public eye. I won't be in the public eye.

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Exactly, why do you think I want that of the public eyes? I just said fame but everyone just concluded it's publicity 😏.

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It's not conclusion especially with the way you are dragging us to the public eyes 🤣🤣😂😂

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Okay, then what could it be then boo? 🙃

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🤔🤔🤔🤔

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You said you guys did not conclude that way, I was just asking what then did you think.

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You've just said something that I want to appreciate you for, NATURAL FAME that's the aspect I've been looking at since when I chose fame.

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Thank you 💕
That the best, it attracts God's blessings too

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You hit the nail on the head. This couldn't be more accurate. Fame is good but the power to make impacts, actual impacts, is much more desirable and money is a key factor to make that happen.

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Right but when you make that impact, whether good or bad you will start becoming famous, even against your will.

Always be prepared to face whichever comes your way dear.

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I honestly really highly extremely LOVE this! The thing is that even some people that may want money so much just want it for themselves. It's nice to see you don't care about fame and all that, but is better to see that you need the money to help others ❤️. Wow, the dream is lovely.

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Yes he has a really good dream and that dream will make him famous, whether he likes it or not 😁😁.

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Madam, you too like fame oh😂😂💔

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Exactly...🤣🤣😂 She wants everyone to be like her but it's not possible.

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No that's not true, I just don't want you guys to be seeing it from just that perspective you are seeing it from.

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You are failing to see from our angle and you want us to see yours? 🤣🤣😂🤣😂 There are silent millionaires my dear and I understand your point. You are the one not understanding the fact that some fame doesn't require public eyes.

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You still don't get it, do you?

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I do, but I feel you don't get mine.

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I get yours but you are not getting mine 😂🤣😂🤣

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Oh really, I understand you want money because you don't like getting attention publicly. And even if you want to, it has to be on the very low.

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That's my smart babe. You finally did. I don't do social media fame.

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Yes, I finally did. Social media has so many unreal people singing your praised and downfall, lol.

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Thank you so much. It has always been about my dream and my favourite life quote is "I would rather live for a day and touch many lives than to live a hundred years and not touch any life."

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Fame??
Nahhhh.
One thing about fame is it makes everyone want to know your business.
I like that low key life you are just yourself and not worried about people all up in your business.

As long as fame does not pay bills I'm so going for money.

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As long as you are a good or bad person, you will be famous but if you want to be neither good or bad, people won't really mind if you exist self.

So you will have to choose, hot or cold or lukewarm?

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He is stating the fact that he would rather grow in silence and I get you too, that money will attract a lot of attention too but trust me, I know how to use others to front what I don't want them to know I am behind.

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I get him too. It's a good thing you know how to do that, it's really nice.

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That's just it..I don't want people in my business. I would gladly use others to front while being anonymous... Let others have the fame... Let me just have the money. It's a choice.

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That's the problem, it doesn't work that way, you get the money, fame comes knocking, you get the fame, money will knock.

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That's why someone said they are intertwined.

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Exactly, so try and train your mind to accept it when it comes.

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I can't train my mind for what I don't want in full glare.

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I feel you bro. All eyes on you like this. You won't even be able to come outside and breathe fresh air. You'll just see yourself on news.

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That's not totally true sha ☹️.

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Okay okay I might have exaggerated a little on the breathe fresh air part😁

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I understand you, I just don't want others to get it wrong.

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(Edited)

Today's engagement topic is a very logical one. I called it that because we have two topics that are literally dependent on one another. For instance, money attracts people. Having enough money to the extent of being referred to as being wealthy, surely comes with attention. It is rare for a wealthy man not to have fame to a certain extent unless he is the type that can cover his wealth from the sight of people. But that's not possible because one cannot cover the moon "aka ekpuchi onwa".

On the other hand, being famous comes with the ability to render a service or proffer a solution to a particular challenge. As a result, you'll be known for that particular thing. And conventionally, proffering solution to challenges brings wealth to us, especially if the service we render is highly sorted after.

But for the sake of this question and not to maintain a neutral ground, I would be going with fame, that is, if what fame means here is knowing a lot of people or being known by people. There is this saying in my place that he that has people is greater than he that has wealth - "Onye nwere mmadu ka onye nwere ego".
The greatest commodity one can have is people not money. But in our world today, being famous comes with a lot of sacrifices. Social media has made people see those that are famous as "gods - perfect people" but it ought not to be so.

On that note, the life I desire is a life where I am known by those that I have positively influenced by my wealth. In essence, being polished by a mixture of the two - fame and wealth, at the right proportion, in the right application, is the best for me.

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I love this. Being famous comes with a lot of sacrifices especially having your daily life scrutinized that makes you feel exhausted that you don't have a life. It draws unnecessary attention too which I don't like. I don't hate fame but knowing my kind of person, I would rather pick money...and grow jejely. I like being behind the scene..I don't even want public accolades. Let someone else take that 🤣🤣😂

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You can run but you can't hide, lol.

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Hahaha I sure have my way.

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if you have ture wealth, which includes people, you will be known for something good, not social media ooo, that is not wealth, that is a trap, if you make any mistake, you ll face the wrath of being famous, but if you re influential, and you make a mistake which is rare but possible, people will defend you for the times you were good and valuable to them, they will love you for you good deeds and cover your mistakes. I hope you feel me. I love this discussion.

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That's it. Social media is a trap and that's what most people are focusing on when discussing fame which is why I've been rejecting it but most people don't understand yet.

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You can be famous for bad or good thing though.
That's nice of you will be using your fame to have a positive effect in the society

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Very much on point. Your wealth draws fame to you but you can choose to stay low-key because you have the power to.
Good choice and even better that you're very much aware of everything that comes with the fame. At the end, it all boils down to living a life that's worthwhile.

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Sure. Living a worthwhile lifestyle is very much desired.

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You make a very good point. That other kind of fame where you're known for the good ways you've impacted others is actually really cool. I see your point although I prefer wealth because of (as you said) social media publicity and all that.

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That is true and that is why he also advised that we should try to stop that unnecessary social media publicity.

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I knew I will have someone that will understand this. Indeed they both attract themselves to each other. Having people is very valuable compared to having money and I'm so happy you have taken time to explain this much, thank you so much 🙏❤️.

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The greatest commodity one can have is people not money.

i m glad you said this, if you check my comment I also alluded to it, Wealth in itself includes influence, and fame is only a smoke that goes with it. You can be faous for being poor too, infact a fool's fart smells the most in public space, what matters is the value you bring to others.

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infact a fool's fart smells the most in public space, what matters is the value you bring to others.

Hahaha, rightly said. Wise words you have in here my friend. Glad you came around. let me check your comment then.

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Happy new week, welcome my friends
Some people have money like alot of money, even more than Buhari or Dangote in Nigeria but we don't know them.

While some people have fame, but are broke, they won't tell you this part. You heard about the Actor that Opm pastor helped.

Or will you like to be rich and not being known?

I will choose this biko
First, being known no fit add to my money, secondly if i can help people and influence the society i prefer that. I would prefer to be a silence giver to the needy.

Let's be realistic if you have fame, you might have more enemies. Like village people 😂😂

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Village people, yes oooo. Do you know that wealth at some point be like defense against witchcraft attack? 😂😂🤣😂

On a serious note, Nah person wey poor of wey popular dey always get winch attack.

As you talk am. The actor wey people sabi, always on large screen and whatnot, but see as him life be. The worse be say the guy nor her house. Which kain life be that.

Abeg, nah who fame help? Make I get boku money, every other thing go follow.

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Village people, yes oooo. Do you know that wealth at some point be like defense against witchcraft attack?

I don reason this talk tire
Explain

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You still dey reason am? Winch dey fear rich people ooo. Nah famous people them due always attack.

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Village people doesn't look for who doesn't have progress o

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That person is not famous because I don't know him 😁😁.

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As in ehn, these village people, they do not want us to shine but no matter what they do, we will still shine.

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Fame? Taaaa. Wealth all the way.

As a person who enjoys a small circle of friends, I don't care much for fame, though well utilised could make you rich (the positive kind of fame though 😂).
Sometimes I actually pity famous people, some famous people because you'd hardly find a famous person who manages to keep a private life. Every of their actions are under the scrutiny of the public, press and unwanted eyes. Not being able to go anywhere I want without a disguise or heavily guarded doesn't sound fun at all for me.

Money (grins). The question stated above is "rich and not being known". If we're talking WEALTH, there's no how you won't be known, unless you're a Nigerian politician hoarding money and storing it in a pit under your bed 😂 (that's not even wealth). You'll surely be known, I believe this type of knowing is just not meant for the general public.

I don't care about "being known" as long as I'm known by the right people. I won't just be the rich Aunty always in the papers or on tv but have an actual presence in the life of people I love. Also, wealthy people run this world, the famous and powerful people want to be associated with you, they'll find you surely. So you have the power to pull any strings, why would I care about "being known" then?

I could use my money to impact lives without all the paparazzi that comes with fame, dress and be a normal person, enjoy company of people and activities normal people enjoy. Despite my wealth, I'd love my kids to be able enjoy being normal kids and not be born and raised under the scrutiny of the whole world.

Just in case you chose fame,remember "being known" is not being loved 🌚😂😂. I hope with these points of mine...

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Exactly my point
Make money, With family and few friends
Less eyes on you and live a private happy life😋😋

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Don't you know your family and friends is the public that will still make you famous? A stranger cannot just start saying something good or bad about you, it's someone that is close.

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Lol
Family and friends??
See finish full those people oo
Na stranger dey appreciate good thing well

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I'm telling you, let the kids rest easy please. At school, all the kids would be bugging you because "Mommy is a superstar."

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We have to be careful not to be too weary of the negative side of fame and deprive ourselves from using the gift we have.

No matter how you try to hide a light in darkness, it will surely shine, take note, lol.

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There are famous people who are not on the media too dear, that man in your community that people always have something to say about him is a famous man too don't you think?

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Very true though. I feel you.

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Who go even reason am two times sef? Is it the one that if I drink a glass of water I'll now come and be in the news and on TikTok videos? Abeg that's not a good life oh please. Like this sef I would be carrying security around to stop paparazzi from touching me? No oh, that's too much.

Plus I can be famous and still be poor. I can also become very famous for being a mad person. In fact, mad people are now becoming famous anyhow in this country. Are you asking me to mention the mad people? I will not talk oh so I will not annoy somebody🙂🙂. As I was saying, no privacy for a famous person. I like privacy too much. In fact I don't even like it when too many people know my name. Sometimes it'll come and cause see finish. People will be trolling you on social media for eating rice and stew.

As for the "just money" part, I prefer that please. I need money to provide for my needs and prepare for a woman and her children. Giving me money alone is enough. Take the fame. There are too many poor people that need to be fed in this country. At least I can go give alms without publicity.

@samostically this one you people are asking? Hope you people are planning to give us money😁. And getting tagged on engagement posts? Count me in!

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What makes someone famous? There are different things that makes us famous and it all boils down to what we can offer to others and even the world at large.

The reason why this fame is becoming something that wants to seem like sin is because some of them allow pride to creep in and they want more of the world to know about what they are doing and that's where the social media come in.

We are in control of ourselves but any little mistake can make us loose control so we just have to be careful.

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Please you can tag me on engagement posts!🙂

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(Edited)

In church today we learn about giving and really this thought came to mind, only to find it as the topic of discussion. Sorry for the late reply though, I m sure many have dropped their thought, I hope to go through them as well //

It depends on what wealth is to you and I, I found out that money is the least type of wealth and thats has been missed by many, money has wings and it will fly to where you send it or where there is solution. So if you can have Ideas, trust me, that's a higher realm of wealth than money, the most important type of wealth you want to have is people, human resources, which includes their time, energy, passion and even their money. Having this type of wealth is the gold standard, it cant be compared to being famous, because, really wealth includes influence and one can be famous and not influential like the example you had sited.

SO for me with this understanding of wealth, of course I ll be wealthy and thats gonna be the side I stand..

now let me peruse the other comments, thanks @samostically for this healthy topic you shared

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Well said @jaydr. For instance, if for some unfortunate reasons a wealthy and influential man later goes broke, people in his network or those he influenced positively when he was rich, can team up to support and elevate him - I have witnessed this many times. People are still the greatest commodity anyone can have, just like you said.

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Exactly, and you know what, they ll put him back up above them, because he has been able to maintain a structure with his stature.

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Please the engagement topics is it only weekends?
And secondly can one do a video instead of writing?

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