When life happens, pains and agony set in, the pains is so unbearable. People from different groups, will come claiming they know how you feel, some will say i understand the pains, but no, you dont understand it, the pains one feel is not compare to yours when you had the experience or when you read it in book or watch it in movies.

Day in, day out, people are dying, some sick while some go through serious health issues all this needs consoling and their family members most times meet people who console them with words that are not even adding up to the struggles and pains they are going through.

Last month, the governor of my state loss his dear wife to the cold hand of death, words of consolations came from so many persons and people all over the country. I was just thinking aloud one evening, after seeing the one on television after the loss, i imagine the stress, the pains and the trauma he is going, i just told myself only him understands the pains and only him feels it and can only choose to come out of it or remain in it.

And just few days ago the deputy governor loss her young daughtet too to the cold hand of death, just few month after her marriage ceremony and the news spreading round is that she lost her life during child birth, so many people are writing and consoling the family still i know only them understands the pains and the trauma, just only them.

The pain and the trauma of lossing a person so dear to you cannot be compare to anpther persons pains because we all deal with pains in different ways so only an individual understands it and chooses tl come out of it or not.

Seeing people go through this pains hurt me so so much i wished death could just disappear in the picture but what can we do it is inevitable so all we have to do is to do good and live righteously with the knowledge that we have nothing, and we will one day go that path with nothing.

Try your best to stay in peace with all men, be a peaceful person, do right, live right and learn to number your days here on earth bevause you never can tell what will happen next.

live rightly, and be at peace with all men.

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